You will come across people in your life that will not be able to see your worth. You will come across and work with people who won’t realise how much you have to offer. You will come across people in your life that will make you feel like absolute SHIT. And that’s the reality.
One of the things that I have learnt this year in fact, during the past few weeks is that people will hurt you. No matter how good or how kind of a person you are, you will get hurt and no matter how much you want to punish them for it, you cant. Even if you delete them from every social media, and block their number they will not care. Some people will hurt you and not apologise for it. It’s who they are. Don’t tell me that people change. Because they don’t. Some people will have the audacity to lie to your face and not feel guilty. Some people are just shitty human beings. I think you come to realise this as you get older.
You will come across people in your life that just won’t care about your feelings. They won’t care about how shit they made you feel, even when you try your best to have a civilised conversation with them about how their actions have hurt you. Some people just don’t care when they have destroyed the lives of others. Are they even human? Some people will just think about themselves. They will destroy and step over others, belittle them to get what they want. Once they’ve reached their goal they will not look back and see how their actions have impacted the lives of those around them.
You will come across people who think they are always right. You will come across people who are rude, they don’t see themselves as bad people. Some people just don’t care who they hurt as long as they are in control. Some people will make you feel like you are dumb and that will satisfy them. Some people don’t want to admit that they are wrong, or how toxic they are, they look for others to blame. They pretend others are the problem.
You will come across people who will make you question every aspect of your life. Some people will make you cry, scream and bring out sides of you that you didn’t even know existed. You will come across people that will make you hate yourself when really you should be hating and screaming at them. Those are the people who don’t deserve your kindness. Some people are just not worthy of your tears.